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I also hate the weird sense of “duty” that is often batted around in these conversations, as if you’re somehow betraying an entire race by dating outside of it, disparaging your ancestors in the process.
I’m pretty sure my ancestors would want me to be with someone who loved me unconditionally first and foremost, not which hair products they use.
We respectfully disagree, especially regarding Swedish white women in America; ask Tiger Woods about his ex-wife, Elin Nordegren.
They are anything but easy and are as tough as black women, mainly because they have no idea they’re white. So, let’s begin with the first equation; let’s do the simple math, 100 dates, 100 dinners, 100 checks, (plus interests and fees if using a credit card), 100 tips and no guarantees. Many young American black women are broken, mentally, spiritually and financially. If more black men dated outside of their race they would actually own more assets, houses, possibly stocks and be able to cover the basics like health and life insurance, (which would cut police brutality against the black man practically in half, because they would not be constantly spending their hard earn dollars on woman after woman trying to find a good one.
You’ll be lucky to get a thank you, and at the end of it all may have one real prospect. Racism exists partly because most young black men do not have expensive life insurance policies if they have one at all.
We all agree that when a black man finds a good American black woman there is nothing more beautiful, but look at the effort that it takes to find that one. Now, you take the same equation, flip it around and take 100 white women, the odds are that you will find 20 out of that 100.
It’ll be more like, Well, you know he works at such and such, and our schedules don’t match.’ But we’ll know really what it is.
There are about 50-eleven more important issues – like why we still haven’t received those hoverboards and self-lacing high-tops Back to the Future Part II promised us. When society is constantly telling you you’re not good enough, only to see “your women” also turn their backs on you, it’s painful.
But all the other friends of mine, it’s either they vocally say that they won’t or every time an opportunity comes up for them to date outside of their race, there’s some excuse why it’s not going to work.
They never really say it’s because he’s White, or because he’s Spanish or something like that. I think in New York, you find more Black women that date outside of their race.
Remember that the ultimate goal for any biological organism is to reproduce as much as it can, and ensure its success. If you only mate with people that are too similar, chances are they share alot of the same recessive genes.
As the man CAN have multiple mates, the safest way to secure his bloodline is to have children with very DIFFERENT mates. Which could run the risk of some disease wiping out your entire progeny.
Men in general date outside their race more often than women do (given the choice, many men of non-white races generally do not have the success to do so).